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Know yourself. Know your spouse. Do money well Together

Know yourself.

Know your spouse.

Do money well

Together

Where are You on the
love and money scale?

Do you ever avoid talking about money? Think you and your spouse already communicate well? Find out how you really stack up.
Next Steps Together

Learn what is underneath your reactions to money–and how to  get to connection instead of conflict or avoidance. Take the next steps as a couple or in a group! 

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“Shaunti and Jeff have tackled such an important topic for relationships. This is a money book that has nothing to do with money, and everything to do with the heart.”

Lysa TerKeurst

#1 New York Times bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries

“Shaunti and Jeff’s skillful integration of research, relational understanding, and practical wisdom make this book a must­read for every couple. The insight and helpful prompts will be a game changer in your relationship!”

Dr. Juli Slattery

Cofounder, president, Authentic Intimacy

“I have been giving financial advice primarily to couples for the last forty-plus years. I only wish I had had this book forty years ago, as it validated from a research standpoint just about everything that I’ve experienced in working with couples on their finances. It is a privilege to offer this endorsement.”

Ron Blue

CEO, Ron Blue Institute

“Money problems are often not about money, but about how we think and feel about money, ourselves, and our spouse. And we don’t often know why we think and feel the way we do. Shaunti and Jeff’s research is a roadmap to discovering what lies behind our attitudes and behavior around money—and learning to work as a team. I highly recommend Thriving in Love and Money for all who want to replace conflict with harmony.”

Gary Chapman, PhD

Author of The 5 Love Languages

“Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn have done it again. Their newest research goes right to the core of a huge topic that every couple deals with—money—and why we respond the way we do. It is fascinating to suddenly understand our spouse’s motivations, wishes, and fears—and our own! No matter how much or how little money we have, this is exactly what we need in order to thrive. Both men and women will love this book!”

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

Founder of Love & Respect Ministries and New York Times bestselling author of Love & Respect
“Shaunti and Jeff have tackled such an important topic for relationships. This is a money book that has nothing to do with money, and everything to do with the heart.”
Lysa TerKeurst
#1 New York Times bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries

Introducing the Thriving in Love & Money Course

Introducing the Thriving in Love & Money Course!

Resources for
Communication

For Pastors

You want your people to be financially healthy and have their hearts free. But to do so, they have to be able to talk about it. We can help.

For Financial Planners

You aren’t a marriage therapist. But if you help couples with finances, you’re in the marriage space whether you want to be or not! Learn how to help your clients well.

For Counselors

You are a marriage therapist, and money is one of the issues you hear a lot about. We can help.

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“You have no idea how Thriving in Love and Money impacted me!  It goes FAR beyond all the “how to” money books and to the root causes behind the issues, which is a game changer. Even having been a facilitator of [a popular money-management course] for 10+ years, I was still stuck!  You’ve cracked the code on the WHY we were stuck! For once, I have hope that things will change, because now I finally know where to start, with ME!”

—G.P, Georgia

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